The 6 Best Ways to Achieve Your Goals

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Are you one of the 91% of people struggling to achieve your goals? According to research done by the Statistic Brain Research Institute, 91% of people who make New Year’s Resolutions never finish them, and only 9% of people who make New Years Resolutions feel that they’ve actually achieved their goals.

What’s the biggest mistake you’re going to make this year when it comes to your goals? Are you thinking, what mistakes could I possibly make when setting goals? Isn’t that kind of straightforward?

Maybe not.

You’ve heard the story every year during New Year’s Resolutions. Come January, the gym is full of people determined to better themselves, to get in shape, to lose weight.

But less than a month later…

Crickets.

The gym is empty again, or just back to the usual crowd.

So, what happened?

All those New Year’s Resolutioners lost their motivation.

They lost their motivation because of how they DEFINED their goals.

  • “I’ve got to lose 100 pounds.”
  • “I want to bench press my body weight.”
  • “I want to run five miles every morning.”

These are good goals. They’re lofty. Big. Great to think about when you’re envisioning how you’ll look and feel when you get there.

But most of the time people walk through the front doors of the gym with those goals in their heads… But no actionable plan to actually GET THERE.

They want to lose 100 pounds, not just 1. But if you lose 1 pound 100 times, you’ve lost 100 pounds.

Small, challenging but manageable, and easy to repeat.

They want to bench press their body weight, not just the initial weight of the bar. But if you bench the bar first, eventually you can add on small weights, and build your muscles up, and keep doing that until you’re able to bench your body weight.

Small, challenging but manageable, and easy to repeat.

They want to run five miles every morning, not just the 100 feet down their driveways. But if you just run to the end of your driveway, eventually you’ll build the endurance to run to the end of the street, then around the block, then to the end of the neighborhood, until you’re able to run five miles.

Small, challenging but manageable, and easy to repeat.

So how do you achieve your goals?

Set Goals You’ll Never Reach

Wait, what? Set goals you’ll never reach? What kind of hogwash is that?

Actually, in a weird way it kind of makes sense.

Setting huge, amazing, lofty goals that you’ll never reach makes you a better person.

Why does Bill Gates spend so much money developing third-world countries, improving access to water, food, medicine, and things that meet the needs of basic human survival?

Because his BIG GOAL is to improve the quality of life around the world. Their mission statement reads:

Guided by the belief that every life has equal value, the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation works to help all people lead healthy, productive lives. In developing countries, it focuses on improving people’s health and giving them the chance to lift themselves out of hunger and extreme poverty. In the United States, it seeks to ensure that all people—especially those with the fewest resources—have access to the opportunities they need to succeed in school and life.

Bill and Melinda will never finish this goal. They will always work towards it, and when they die there will still be work to do.

And that’s okay.

That’s the point.

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One of my big goals is to educate others that people do not choose to have mental illnesses OR type 1 diabetes.

Those two things are not mutually exclusive and don’t really make sense together when you first look at it, but those are my big things.

There’s a stigma around mental illness, and there’s a stigma around diabetes.

Both of them are wrong and need to be addressed.

And that’s my goal.

I will never be able to tell every person on Earth this thing, so I will never reach this goal. Some might think this is a reason to not try. After all, if you’re never going to accomplish a goal why even bother putting in the effort?

Because happiness and fulfillment come from solving problems, even if the problems you solve are the small ones that lead you towards completing your unfinishable goals.

Break it Up

So, how does one work towards a goal you’ll never accomplish?

Easy.

You break it up.

You can’t get ANYTHING done without breaking it up into smaller chunks.

I like bite-sized chunks. Once you finish one, you move on to the next, and the next, and eventually you’ve got so much momentum finishing the bite-sized chunks that you’re well on your way to meeting your goal.

Your big, unattainable goal needs to be broken into smaller, actually attainable goals. And then THOSE need to be broken down into projects or operations, and then THOSE need to be broken down into plans. From those plans, you get your steps, and from those steps, you get your bite-sized chunks.

To achieve your goals, break them up.

Make Them Small

Isn’t this the same as breaking it up? Well, kinda. But it expands on the idea that smaller is better for getting stuff done.

Breaking it up has to do with the idea that your small goals move you towards your big, unreachable goal. But how small is small enough?

As small as you need it to be.

Caitlin Pyle calls this “shrinking your thought process.”

If starting a blog is too big of a “small step,” then you need to make it even smaller. If losing 100 pounds is too big, you need to make it smaller. Focusing on one pound at a time is a great way to do it.

Treat every little goal as if it were that big goal, and break it up into the smallest pieces you can.

There’s a lot of thought that goes into starting a blog, and a lot of time and effort that goes into losing 100 pounds. So it’s understandable that those goals are too big to start with.

To achieve your goals, make it as small as you can.

Make Them Manageable

It might be obvious that the smaller your steps are, the more manageable they become. In some cases, this might not be true.

For example, let’s say your goal (a reachable one, not that big mythical unattainable goal) is to run a marathon.

This is a pretty impressive goal, and I know that people have to TRAIN for these things. You can’t just decide one day to run a marathon and go do it. There’s a reason Couch-to-5K programs exist and why people have running clubs.

Making your small pieces more manageable will help you achieve your goals

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Make Them Easy to Repeat

There’s another word for this: habit.

Making your goal progress into a habit is the easiest way to get somewhere. If you don’t have to think about doing it, you’ve already succeeded!

Historically, we’ve been told that it takes 21 days to create or establish a habit. According to recent research, that number is way off!

It actually takes upwards of 66 days to build a habit! That’s three times longer than we used to think, which explains a lot about why we fail at a lot of things.

How many times have we dedicated three weeks to build a habit and at the end of it wonder why it doesn’t feel natural?

Because it’s not a habit yet.

By making your small, bite-sized chunks easy to repeat, you make it easier to build a habit, and coincidentally easier to achieve your goals.

Can You Write 1000 Words a Day?

I know a blogger who commits herself to writing 1000 words every day! That’s amazing! During NaNoWriMo I averaged 1,667 words a day, but it took a lot out of me. Nowadays I stick to writing 500 words every morning as part of my morning routine.

But I didn’t start at 1667 words or even at 500. I started with writing just 100.

It’s better to just do SOMETHING instead of doing nothing.

Back in college, I used to put one 3000-word chapter of a Fanfiction story up every week! Looking back, I have no idea how I managed that other than finding time to write EVERY DAY.

That’s the power of a habit.

Discipline, Not Motivation

So, all this advice boils down to one really important point. You’ll get none of the above done or even moving unless you start, and you should never rely on motivation to get you started.

If you wait until you’re motivated to do something, you’ll never get anything done, let alone achieve your goals!

Motivation is fleeting. It shows up for 10 minutes, makes you think you’re going to go to the gym every morning for an hour, and then flees before you even have the chance to pull on your workout clothes. Now what? You felt motivated and pumped to do the thing, and now, you just…don’t.

So what do you do?

Don’t rely on motivation.

Rely on discipline.

[bctt tweet=”Discipline is doing the things you need to do even when you don’t necessarily want to do them. Discipline is what makes habits work.” username=”inspiredforward”]

Neil Pasricha calls this “effectuating,” or just doing it. The time is going to pass anyway, so why should you think about why you don’t want to do the thing? Just do the thing.

This works for me when it comes to my evening routine. I don’t necessarily WANT to wash my face, but if I spend too much time thinking about it I’ll talk myself out of doing it and just go to bed. I’ll tell myself I’m too tired to wash my face, and that missing just one night won’t hurt.

Well, if I keep doing that, all those repeated “one night” add up. To a lot.

So, by effectuating, just DOING IT, I’m instilling discipline and a habit to not even think about doing it. I just do it.

Discipline Builds Habits.

Habits are easy to repeat.

Things that are easy to repeat make it easy to get your small, manageable, bite-sized chunks done. Paired with time, this combination gets you to your goal faster than you thought possible.

Applied to losing weight, writing a book, starting a blog, improving your relationships, training for a marathon, WHATEVER IT IS that you want to do—especially your big, huge, unreachable goals, this formula will put you on the right track and take you right to it.

Now Go Achieve Your Goals!

What’s your goal? Write it down. Now, what small, actionable, bite-sized goal can you do right now that will take you closer to your never-finishing goal?

9 thoughts on “The 6 Best Ways to Achieve Your Goals”

  1. I really like the distinction you make between motivation and discipline. There aren’t many good ways to motivate yourself to do the most boring, difficult jobs, especially if they don’t give you much of a payoff. They still exist though, and still need to get done. The people who succeed are the ones who will be able to do them. Nice work!

  2. I am so guilty of making goals that are way unrealistic. On one hand, dreaming is good, but it takes a vision and discipline(plus a movement of God on my life!) to turn dreams into reality. Thanks for the focus!

  3. Really loving these actionable ways to tackle your goals – especially the powerful distinction you drew between discipline and motivation. Can’t tell you how many times I delayed writing a blog post because I was waiting for my motivation // inspiration to strike. Well, turns out that means just wasting a ton of time waiting around for a train that might never arrive haha!

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